
Ngidinga Umuthi Wesithembu
Ngidinga Umuthi Wesithembu
Ngidinga Umuthi Wesithembu
What is isithembu?.
#isithembu means polygamy or being in
a polygamous marriage (A marriage of having more
than one wife ) and it is a custom in many parts of Africa. isithembu
(also called Sethepu) is the African custom of a man being able to have more than one wife at the same time.
There were and are several situations or Reasons
that allow a man to have additional wives. This custom
is mainly done by Kings in Africa A man may marry again for
reasons that current wife or wives cannot bare children. He keeps his
current wife or wives as divorce is not allowed.but the Current wife ”SHE”
becomes the senior ”QUEEN” wife, a position of honor. A man may marry again
if his current wife or wives have not produced male children. He can
marry again if a wife does not want children. In some places, if a man passes
away or dies, his wife or wives are married to his brother.
This way his family is cared for The Swazi and Zulu
culture says a man should have many wives. Polygamy (Isithembu)
is normal for men. Woman should have children, which is normal for them.
So if you want to be in isithembu marriage i got muthi to
help you soften and calm your main wife such that you can as well marry
a second wife who has attracted your attention
So lomuthi enza abafazi bakho bathandane nge balwe ngeke for them to argue
over minor issues Once used it brings and creates Calmness between both families
you Blow it to a person of your interest once done upon her it soften her heart and love
that it makes her to accept umshado wesithemb